In the last post, I gave you the details of what losers say when they face the big fear - commitment! But this happens way after the girl starts feeling something for the loser... so, this post is for the girls who are confused about whether a guy is a loser or not... here goes...
Identifying loser kind 1 - look out for a definite warning sign - difference in behavior in private and public spaces! Does he call you up at odd hours to talk about nothing but doesn't seem interested to talk while you two are with friends? Does he say nice things only when no one's listening? Does he seem to care when only you two are communicating and does not seem to care when others are present?
Watch out girls, the 'just friends' phrase is perhaps on its way!!!
Identifying loser kind 2 - this is easier to identify - if all you hear is about his lost love and its 'sad, sad ending', you had better start seeing other guys! Most likely, he just wants a nurse to put ointment on his bruises, and you sure don't want your part in the play as Florence Nightingale!!!
Identifying loser kind 3 - this is the easiest - these morons actually advertise their moronic selves!
However, I repeat what I said in my last post - things may seem quite bleak, but there still are the ones who don't classify into any of these categories (and this is from my experience too)! Girls, I insist, get out and find these guys - they deserve only the best - they deserve you!
The next big question - how do you identify the losers
Quotable Quotes of the Quotable Losers!
Warning: this may seem like I am super frustrated, perhaps I am, but every single detail of this account is true... and it is because of this, I am telling all you guys beforehand - this is not about all of you, but about all the losers that give your species a bad name!
Loser kind 1: "I thought of you only as a friend"
Oh, no, you didn't! Do you call up your just friend at the middle of the night to tell them why you are feeling sad? Do you talk to your just friend for hours about nothing? Do you go to meet your just friend at an unearthly hour to an unknown place bcoz you did not meet them for a few days? I think not... does the loser do the same with his other guy 'friends', I think not!
Girls, beware, these 'just friends' are the worst of the lot!
Loser kind 2: "I can't have a relationship bcoz I am unable to forget my first love"
This super moron led you on while you were interacting, behaving as if you were his only hope and then just as you begin to feel something different, he comes to this conclusion. Why was he unable to continue with the previous relationship? He will give you reasons like 'she was too career-focused' or 'she was from a different religion'... if you probe deeper, you would know that the reality is quite different - she saw thru the loser and left him!
Loser kind 3: "I don't believe in love"
Girls don't even try to rectify these individuals. Don't let Hindi movies inspire you to think that these are actually lost souls who need a direction. They do believe what they say, and no amount of your coaxing or caring would change them a bit. What actually happens is you lose your precious time and energy over these individuals who don't even want it!
If you come across any of these specimens, just run, not towards them, but in the opposite direction! And don't nurse a broken heart for these guys, they are not even worth your heels, let alone your heart!
Sounds too frustrating? Well, there are losers out there and you better be beware of them! However, the silver lining is that there are guys out there who do not match with any of these descriptions - and thank God for that! Girls, get rid of the losers, get out of your shell, find these winners (too bad, that they are the rare species) and when you do, fight tooth and nail to win them over for yourselves!
